SHOCK PICS: NBA Star Dwight Howard's REALITY STAR Babys Mother Allows Her BF And Son To Sleep In The SAME BED!!!

Now some of y'all might think that we're being a little OVER THE TOP with this . . . but . . . in the age of SANDUSKY we gotta take EXTRA PRECAUTIONS to keeping our sons safe.

And STEP ONE is to not allow a BOYFRIEND (that man is not her husband ore even her fiance) to have this level of COMFORT with our sons.

Dwight is probably FUMING MAD right about now. And we don't BLAME HIM!!!